Beautiful things are thoughtfully designed: architecture, music, and art. Why not intimacy? Sexual connection is an unrivaled human experience, yet so often sexual wellness isn’t prioritized and connection becomes an obligation or an afterthought. Sex should be creative, playful, intentional, and above all, life-giving! The sex life of your dreams is possible. Let’s work together to design your intimacy.
— Emily
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What Is Sex Coaching?

How Does It Work?

Sex coaching is a collaborative practice that provides individuals and couples with guidance on sexual health, intimacy, and relationship dynamics in a safe, judgement-free space. Through personalized sessions, a sex coach helps clients explore their desires, enhance communication skills, and overcome barriers to sexual satisfaction. By employing a blend of psychological principles and practical strategies, sex coaching fosters a deeper understanding of one’s own sexuality and the dynamics with partners, ultimately promoting a more fulfilling and harmonious sexual experience. This holistic approach emphasizes self-discovery, consent, and emotional connection, empowering clients to embrace their sexuality with confidence and clarity.

Contact me for a complimentary 15 minute discovery call. We will discuss your concern and the coaching process to see if we are a good fit. When you’re ready, we will schedule your first appointment and begin designing your intimacy. Sessions will be conducted from the comfort of your home via Zoom.

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What Concerns Can Sex Coaching Address?

Desire Discrepancies

When partners experience differences in sexual desire, coaching can provide strategies to bridge the gap and enhance mutual satisfaction.

Little or No Sex in Relationship

Coaches can help create a framework to address unfulfilled needs and lost emotional connection to reignite the spark and intimate bond between partners.

Communication Barriers

Sex coaching helps improve communication skills between partners, enabling them to express desires, boundaries, and feelings openly.

Performance Anxiety and Sexual Inhibition

Coaches can assist individuals in overcoming anxiety related to sexual performance, fostering confidence and ease in intimate situations.

Intimacy Issues

Coaching addresses challenges related to emotional intimacy, helping partners reconnect and cultivate a deeper sense of closeness.

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Sexual Dysfunction

Coaches can guide individuals dealing with issues such as orgasm difficulties, low libido, or dyspareunia (painful sex), etc. by offering practical techniques and support.

Exploration of Pleasure

Sex coaching encourages exploration and understanding of personal and shared pleasures, promoting a healthier view of sexuality.

Relationship Dynamics

Coaches can navigate complex relationship dynamics, such as power imbalances or polyamorous arrangements, fostering healthier interactions.

Aging and Sexuality

Coaching can address concerns related to sexuality and aging, helping individuals adapt to changes in their bodies and desires.

Education and Awareness

Coaches offer education on various sexual topics, helping clients become informed and comfortable with their sexual health and wellness.

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